BEST OF Summer Series - Social Expectations vs Autism Reality
Jun 25, 2026☀️ BEST of Summer Series
This episode is part of our BEST of Summer Series, where I'm revisiting some of the most impactful, most downloaded, and most shared episodes from the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast.
Originally released as Episode 143, Social Expectations vs Autism Reality continues to be one of the conversations that resonates most with moms raising autistic children.
Whether you're listening for the first time or coming back for a refresher, I hope it gives you exactly what you need today.
Summer often means more family gatherings, vacations, community events, restaurants, pools, camps, and outings. And with those experiences often comes something many autism families know all too well—society's expectations.
We live in a world filled with unwritten social rules. Personal space. Physical touch. Conversation topics. Waiting in line. Reading social cues. For many neurotypical children, these expectations are picked up naturally. For our children, the social world can often feel confusing, overwhelming, and sometimes unfairly judgmental.
In this episode, Shannon explores the gap between social expectations and autism reality—and the impact that gap can have on both our children and us as parents.
You'll learn:
• What social norms and boundaries really are
• Why social expectations can be especially challenging for autistic children
• How misunderstandings can lead to judgment, exclusion, and frustration
• Why many autism parents feel pressure to meet society's expectations
• How to shift your perspective and protect your peace
• Ways to advocate for greater understanding and acceptance
• Why your belief in your child matters more than public opinion
Shannon also discusses the emotional toll that social expectations can place on families and shares encouragement for parents who often feel caught between helping their child navigate the world and helping the world better understand their child.
This episode is a reminder that while our children may experience the world differently, different does not mean less. Together, we can continue creating a more compassionate and inclusive world—one conversation at a time.
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☀️ BEST of Summer Series Note:
Throughout the summer, I'll be revisiting some of the most impactful episodes from the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast. Some BEST of Summer episodes were originally recorded before the podcast moved to video format and may be available only on audio podcast platforms.
