249. What Do I Even Get Them? Gifts, Expectations, and Letting Go of ‘Typical’ When Your Child Isn’t
Dec 04, 2025— A Holiday Pep Talk
If you’ve ever dreaded the question “What does he want for Christmas?” this episode is for you. In Episode 249 of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon sits down for a heartfelt, honest conversation about gift-giving when your autistic child doesn’t like toys, doesn’t care about unwrapping presents, or doesn’t connect with gifts the way the world expects.
In this episode, Shannon shares:— Why your child isn’t “missing out”— Why practical gifts absolutely count— The freedom in skipping wrapping paper— How to talk to grandparents, aunts, uncles, and siblings— Real-life scenarios you’ll face—and how to handle them— How to release the guilt and drop the pressure to have a “typical” holiday— What embracing YOUR version of Christmas can look and feel like
If the holidays bring up stress, comparison, or worry that you’re “doing it wrong,” this episode will bring relief and perspective. Your family’s Christmas gets to look the way you need it to—and yes, Mama, that is more than enough.
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