Hi, I'm Shannon Urquiola—and I'm not just the founder of Not Your Average Autism Mom, I'm also a mom raising an autistic son, so I truly understand what this journey looks like.  

In 2020, I launched Not Your Average Autism Mom because no mom should have to figure this out alone.  Here, you'll find the support, training and connection you need to navigate the challenges that come with raising children on the spectrum.  

We weren't prepared for this parenting path—but you can feel stronger, more confident and less alone with the right support beside you.  

We only open our doors a few times a year, and now is your chance.  Join us today—you'll be so glad you did.

Most of our members stay with us for the long haul—because once they're here, they realize how much they needed this.  We support parents at every stage—from early diagnosis through adulthood.  And yes, we have grandmothers and they love being part of it too!   

 

We are a community of amazing women from all walks of life, backgrounds, and cultures, all raising a child or children diagnosed with autism. 

Having a community that understands and normalizes this parenting journey, you no longer find yourself feeling isolated and alone. 

Something special happens when you share something in the VILLAGE and hear, "Me too".  

Becoming Not Your Average Autism Mom will change your life.

 

Choose a Plan and Join Now 

There is no other online program that offers what we do for our low monthly fee. 

MONTHLY PLAN

$44/month

Month-to-Month

Here’s what’s waiting for you inside:

🎓 Advocacy & Education Support

Because knowing how to navigate school systems and services makes all the difference.

  • Instant access to our Special Education Training Library — finally understand IEPs, evaluations, accommodations, and all the confusing stuff no one ever explained.  You can finally stop Googling and start understanding how to advocate with confidence.

  • Education Q&A Sessions — ask your questions and get practical, real-time answers that help you feel confident in meetings and beyond.

  • Expert Guest Trainings — learn from top professionals in speech, OT, sensory integration, and behavior—so you can feel better equipped at home and at school.

  • Downloadable Templates & Tools — letters, checklists, and guides to help you advocate with clarity and calm.

đź’› Mindset & Emotional Coaching

Because your emotional well-being matters just as much as your child’s.

  • Weekly Mindset Monday sessions to help you feel more grounded, clear, and capable in your parenting— learn to quiet the chaos in your mind, manage hard emotions, and shift the thoughts that keep you stuck.

  • Monthly LIVE Coaching  — sign up, get coached, or simply listen in as Shannon coaches other moms through the real-life challenges you're likely facing too.  Whether it’s managing the weight of mom guilt, feeling stuck in your marriage, setting boundaries with family who just don’t get it, or grieving the life you thought you’d have—these sessions are your space to feel seen, heard, and supported by someone who’s walked this road too.

  • Monthly Master Class — focused on real-life challenges—think marriage stress, burnout, people-pleasing, and more.

  • 24/7 Ask the Coaches Access — submit questions anytime (yes, even at 2am) and get personalized, thoughtful responses.

  • Private Podcast Episodes — listen on the go with real-talk encouragement, insight, and guidance you can actually use.


🤝 Connection & Community

Because you shouldn’t have to do this alone.

  • The NYAAM VILLAGE (Private Facebook Community) — a safe, private space full of other autism moms who get it—and will never judge you for having a hard day.

  • Monthly LIVE Events — join us for Coffee TALK, Happy Hour, and special connection calls designed to build real friendships and support.

  • Exclusive Member-Only Opportunities — surprise extras just for our NYAAM mamas and 1-on-1 coaching options.

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ANNUAL PLAN

$440/year

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🎓 Advocacy & Education Support

Because knowing how to navigate school systems and services makes all the difference.

  • Instant access to our Special Education Training Library — finally understand IEPs, evaluations, accommodations, and all the confusing stuff no one ever explained.  You can finally stop Googling and start understanding how to advocate with confidence.

  • Education Q&A Sessions — ask your questions and get practical, real-time answers that help you feel confident in meetings and beyond.

  • Expert Guest Trainings — learn from top professionals in speech, OT, sensory integration, and behavior—so you can feel better equipped at home and at school.

  • Downloadable Templates & Tools — letters, checklists, and guides to help you advocate with clarity and calm.

💛 Mindset & Emotional Coaching

Because your emotional well-being matters just as much as your child’s.

  • Weekly Mindset Monday sessions to help you feel more grounded, clear, and capable in your parenting— learn to quiet the chaos in your mind, manage hard emotions, and shift the thoughts that keep you stuck.

  • Monthly LIVE Coaching  — sign up, get coached, or simply listen in as Shannon coaches other moms through the real-life challenges you're likely facing too.  Whether it’s managing the weight of mom guilt, feeling stuck in your marriage, setting boundaries with family who just don’t get it, or grieving the life you thought you’d have—these sessions are your space to feel seen, heard, and supported by someone who’s walked this road too.

  • Monthly Master Class — focused on real-life challenges—think marriage stress, burnout, people-pleasing, and more.

  • 24/7 Ask the Coaches Access — submit questions anytime (yes, even at 2am) and get personalized, thoughtful responses.

  • Private Podcast Episodes — listen on the go with real-talk encouragement, insight, and guidance you can actually use.


🤝 Connection & Community

Because you shouldn’t have to do this alone.

  • The NYAAM VILLAGE (Private Facebook Community) — a safe, private space full of other autism moms who get it—and will never judge you for having a hard day.

  • Monthly LIVE Events — join us for Coffee TALK, Happy Hour, and special connection calls designed to build real friendships and support.

  • Exclusive Member-Only Opportunities — surprise extras just for our NYAAM mamas and 1-on-1 coaching options.

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  • Special NYAAM SWAG Surprise
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