Hi, I'm Shannon Urquiola—and I'm not just the founder of Not Your Average Autism Mom, I'm also a mom raising an autistic son, so I truly understand what this journey looks like.  

In 2020, I launched Not Your Average Autism Mom because no mom should have to figure this out alone.  Here, you'll find the support, training and connection you need to navigate the challenges that come with raising children on the spectrum.  

We weren't prepared for this parenting path—but you can feel stronger, more confident and less alone with the right support beside you.  

We only open our doors a few times a year, and now is your chance.  Join us today—you'll be so glad you did.

Most of our members stay with us for the long haul—because once they're here, they realize how much they needed this.  We support parents at every stage—from early diagnosis through adulthood.  And yes, we have grandmothers and they love being part of it too!   

 

We are a community of amazing women from all walks of life, backgrounds, and cultures, all raising a child or children diagnosed with autism. 

Having a community that understands and normalizes this parenting journey, you no longer find yourself feeling isolated and alone. 

Something special happens when you share something in the VILLAGE and hear, "Me too".  

Becoming Not Your Average Autism Mom will change your life.

 

Choose a Plan and Join Now 

There is no other online program that offers what we do for our low monthly fee. 

MONTHLY PLAN

$44/month

Month-to-Month

Here’s what’s waiting for you inside:

 

  

💛 Mindset & Emotional Coaching

Support for you, not just your parenting role, because your emotional well-being matters.

  • Weekly Mindset Monday sessions to help you feel more grounded, clear, and capable in your parenting— learn to quiet the chaos in your mind, manage hard emotions, and shift the thoughts that keep you stuck.

  • Monthly LIVE Coaching  — sign up, get coached, or simply listen in as Shannon coaches other moms through the real-life challenges you're likely facing too.  

  • Monthly Master Class — deep dives into real-life topics like stress & burnout, marriage, people pleasing, confidence, emotional regulation and identity loss.

  • 24/7 Ask the Coaches Access — submit questions anytime (yes, even at 2am) and get thoughtful, personalized responses.

  • Private Podcast Episodes — listen on the go with practical insight, and guidance you can actually use.

🎓 Advocacy & Education Support

Because knowledge still matters — just not at the extent of your peace. Advocacy is part of the journey, and knowing how to navigate school systems and services makes all the difference.

  • Special Education Training Library — IEPs, evaluations, accommodations — explained simply.  You can finally stop Googling and start understanding how to advocate with confidence.

  • Education Q&A's — ask your questions and get practical, real-time answers that help you feel confident in meetings and beyond.

  • Downloadable Templates & Tools — letters, checklists, and guides to help you advocate with clarity and calm.

🤝 Connection & Community

Because you don’t have to do this alone.

  • The NYAAM VILLAGE (Private Facebook Community) — a safe, private space full of other autism moms who get it—and will never judge you for having a hard day.

  • Monthly LIVE Events — join us for Coffee TALK, Happy Hour, and special connection calls designed to build real friendships and support.

  • Exclusive Member Extras — parent resource downloads that go with select podcasts and optional 1-on-1 coaching options when you want deeper support.

JOIN MONTHLY

ANNUAL PLAN

$440/year

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Here’s what’s waiting for you inside:

 

  

💛 Mindset & Emotional Coaching

Support for you, not just your parenting role, because your emotional well-being matters.

  • Weekly Mindset Monday sessions to help you feel more grounded, clear, and capable in your parenting— learn to quiet the chaos in your mind, manage hard emotions, and shift the thoughts that keep you stuck.

  • Monthly LIVE Coaching  — sign up, get coached, or simply listen in as Shannon coaches other moms through the real-life challenges you're likely facing too.  

  • Monthly Master Class — deep dives into real-life topics like stress & burnout, marriage, people pleasing, confidence, emotional regulation and identity loss.

  • 24/7 Ask the Coaches Access — submit questions anytime (yes, even at 2am) and get thoughtful, personalized responses.

  • Private Podcast Episodes — listen on the go with practical insight, and guidance you can actually use.

🎓 Advocacy & Education Support

Because knowledge still matters — just not at the extent of your peace. Advocacy is part of the journey, and knowing how to navigate school systems and services makes all the difference.

  • Special Education Training Library — IEPs, evaluations, accommodations — explained simply.  You can finally stop Googling and start understanding how to advocate with confidence.

  • Education Q&A's — ask your questions and get practical, real-time answers that help you feel confident in meetings and beyond.

  • Downloadable Templates & Tools — letters, checklists, and guides to help you advocate with clarity and calm.

🤝 Connection & Community

Because you don’t have to do this alone.

  • The NYAAM VILLAGE (Private Facebook Community) — a safe, private space full of other autism moms who get it—and will never judge you for having a hard day.

  • Monthly LIVE Events — join us for Coffee TALK, Happy Hour, and special connection calls designed to build real friendships and support.

  • Exclusive Member Extras — parent resource downloads that go with select podcasts and optional 1-on-1 coaching options when you want deeper support.

  • GET 2 Months FREE
  • Special NYAAM SWAG Surprise
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